Your Worst Enemy

Who Is Our Worst Enemy?


Who do you consider as your worst enemy?
The criminals roaming the dark streets?
Your boss who's killing you mentally and
emotionally with stress and harsh words?
The people in office who are engaging in
graft and corruption, instead of helping
those in need?


We have many implications of who our enemies are;
but we have one common foe who is the main cause
of our failures and misfortunes, and
we're not even aware of this opponent.

You may not want to admit it, but our worst enemy is ourselves.

Who do you blame when something goes wrong?

You blame the people around you, the weather,
maybe even God. But we are the ones who
are in control of ourselves. We can change the outcome of our
lives because we have the capacity to do that.

It is our fear, jealousy, greed, etc. that is ruining
our lives. Some people who never managed to get out of
poverty blame the government or their jobs. But they're
too afraid to try out new ventures that may improve their
lives. They half-heartedly go to work on their 9 to 5 job.
Then when the day is done, they watch TV and go out aimlessly
having fun without seriously thinking of what great opportunity
the future has in store for them, if only they would try to do
something different with their lives.

Fear has caused many to remain frigid and to never go out
exploring the wonderful things this world has to offer.
Lots of people would rather stay where they are in an
unsatisfied state than to risk difficulties and obstacles
for the sake of attaining their dreams.

If their lives are not getting any better, they have no else
to blame but themselves.

Jealousy and envy has also caused some relationship problems.
Some people immediately jump to conclusions without first
analyzing the situation. They let their sudden emotions
control their behaviors without even thinking of the
consequences that may result.

If they're having problems with their relationships, they
have no else to blame but themselves.

This goes to show that we decide what will happen to us. Of
course, there are circumstances that are beyond our control,
like natural calamities. But we can still utilize to our best
advantage the things that we have control of.

For instance, you got rejected by your dream girl. Some
people would just get drunk and feel miserable, thinking that
it's the end of the world. Some will move onwards with their
lives and find the best in what remains with them. See? It's
really up to you. You decide if you want to have a good life
or not.

You failed in your exams? So what? There's another
opportunity. You can just sulk in sorrow or you can study
harder to get a high score in the future. It's up to you.

There's no use crying over spilled milk. You don't have to
get frustrated over your misfortunes. Concentrate on how
you could get better in the future.

If we encounter problems, we can either succumb to it, or we
can treat it as an opportunity to become stronger and to
become better individuals. Winners would always treat their
dilemmas as opportunities.

Oh yes. We can be our worst enemy, but we can also be our
best friend. It's all up to you!


Zaak O'Conan discovers and presents useful information
on to enhance and/or repair your life, body and relationships.
You'll find his other articles on how to improve your life
and expand your horizons at http://your-health-center.com

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BANABU

Have you ever though about how easy it is
for you to control your thoughts?

You can make your mind bring up memories and
associations about things that you are not
even thinking anything about!

You can be deeply involved with a completely
unrelated train of thought and something as
simple as one sentence can activate your mind
and your emotions.

Your beliefs and memories are burned into your
mind from the input you are surrounded by
whether you like it or not.

Don't believe me?

Try it for yourself.

Read each of these lines and I bet you can finish
one or all of them.

===>Splish splash I was...

===>You aint nothin but a hound...

===>Goodness Gracious Great...

===>Don't you, step on my blue...

===>I fell in to a burning ring of...

So how'd you do?

Do you see how easy your mind can pull up thoughts
and memories that you are not even consciously aware
of?

It just proves even more how critically important
the input in your life is.

If you want to be successful you need to become
the person that success seeks out instead of
being the person always chasing success.

You do that by constantly surrounding yourself
with information and energy that support that
desire.

In other words... The correct input that creates
success not stops it!

Turn of the TV, media, and everything else that
is trying to think for you and turn on your mind.

You will be amazed at how quickly things will
change for you.

When you install the correct and supportive
input into your life like BANABU, you condition
your mind for success.

Check out BANABU's 11principles

So when you think of things like relationships,
money, happiness, and success you instantly
think of happy loving fulfilling and rewarding
experiences just like when you hear the lines
of the songs above and are able to finish them.

You complete your thoughts with whatever input
you receive the most so... you better make sure
it is serving to you!

Let's make 2007-2008 the best year of your life!

Fill your daily experiences with information,
ideas, and experiences that condition you to
be the person success chases, not the person
that is always chasing success.

To your ever expanding success,

Fran Watson
BANABU!!!